I find it all too easy at the moment to gush about the boy, and for the time being, my friends are happy to hear what they can about him. Everyone has some question to ask about him, but the questions that people pose are quite different, and I have noticed, dependent upon the personal interests of that person.
S does Aikido, and is therefore interested in the fact that the boy does a martial art. He wanted to know what style of fighting, and what grade he is at. A girlfriend who works in the travel industry, enquired as to his travel history. Wishtup dances, and asked as to whether the boy is a dancer. It is a natural thing, I suppose, that people will immediately try to find common ground with someone new to my life, by their own interests.
But I think the best first question in regards to the boy comes from L7. No dallying around topics as to his employment, his interests or his past emotional history. I was asked, "Is he big enough?".
As I said, people ask what comes to mind in reference to their own favoured interests.